Nature versus nurture

[mrsflibble]

I had another thing to add, I have a different father to my two brothers and my sister. they are all my step-dad's. I cal him dad as he's the only one I have.
we all have the same mum... kind of, we all came out of the same woman but she's a different person since her manic depression has been controlled... anyway, me, Tom and Lucy (24, 14 and 10) are all very similar in looks, sense of humour, tastes in food, fairly high IQs...we are even similar in wierd little hang ups we all have like hatred of using phones- yet Ollie is the odd one out. he's 12, looks like dad, doesn't have the same hang-ups, could eat chilli till the cows come home, is not too bright (not just the dyslexia)... how did that happen?! if he wasn't damn near a clone of his dad I'd say he was the milkman's!!

James is the middle child on his side, he has an older brother who is 35, a younger one who is 24. both of them are very self centred, yet james isn't.