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Post: # 250441Post southeast-isher
Thu Dec 22, 2011 9:34 pm

Hi all,

I'm currently on the dole and will be for a while. I've been bankrupt. Only option is being given land or getting housing benefit for a tiny appartment. I'm basically a dole-bludger seeking land. If anyone here has any they would like to give me please give me a shout.

Best wishes.

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Fri Dec 23, 2011 12:27 am

Sorry to hear that, SE :(

I can't help with the land, but I really hope something turns up for you.

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Fri Dec 23, 2011 1:34 am

I hope you are incredibly lucky SEI ib your search but that aside I bet it's a weight off your mind finally becoming bancrupt. As they say the only way is up now my friend.
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Fri Dec 23, 2011 2:40 am

Very kind of you to reply - thanks both of you. Yes it is a relief to have no debts anymore. They were never huge but a relief they are gone nevertheless.

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Fri Dec 23, 2011 11:37 am

so sorry SE. The only positive thing is that is the third Shite thing I've heard in the last 24 hours so hopefully that's the "things come in threes" out of the way.
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Fri Dec 23, 2011 5:51 pm

I think my only option would be to consider going overseas.

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Fri Dec 23, 2011 6:46 pm

southeast-isher wrote:Very kind of you to reply - thanks both of you. Yes it is a relief to have no debts anymore. They were never huge but a relief they are gone nevertheless.
£320k give or take a few £100's for me,lol....

Also there is not much of the stigma left these days. Obviously it will have a massive impact on your credit score etc well into the future but as you say it was worth it. Take a break on the dole and get your breath. Then move on.
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Post: # 250495Post southeast-isher
Fri Dec 23, 2011 7:01 pm

I am interested in getting a carer for me an anxiety disorder sufferer. I am currently in the UK but willing to travel for medical treatment overseas for periods with which i wish to have a carer. If you or anyone you know can help give me a shout by private message. Thank you for reading.

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Post: # 250498Post Paul_C
Fri Dec 23, 2011 10:35 pm

contact your GP, speak to the local mental healthcare trust and social services to see what is avalible. i have a support worker who is fantastic. (he aids me in stuff not a care giver, its nice to just go out and have a brew and a chat with someone who doesnt judge but instead treats you like a person. )

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Fri Dec 23, 2011 11:32 pm

Thanks Paul but i thought it better to put the question out there as an NHS worker or the like is not so likely to be able to travel overseas.

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Sat Dec 24, 2011 7:34 am

So you want free land and a free Mental Health Nurse? But you are willing to travel!

LOL!

My sincere wishes for a brighter and happier 2012 mate.
As Al say Bancrupcy is no biggey now a days.

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Post: # 250514Post southeast-isher
Sat Dec 24, 2011 10:44 am

boboff wrote:So you want free land and a free Mental Health Nurse?
I think they would be able to claim some benefits for caring for me - certainly enough to live on i would hope in a cheaper country, and get to see the World.

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Sat Dec 24, 2011 6:00 pm

Carers allowance is currently £55.55 a week, hardly enough to live on my friend aint you heard that Britian no longer cares about its old, ill & disabled so good luck claiming anything in this climate when they are actively taking much needed benefits from soliders & cancer patients :dontknow: worth trying the endless form filling etc just dont bank on it !
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Sat Dec 24, 2011 7:01 pm

scotsmart wrote:Carers allowance is currently £55.55 a week, hardly enough to live on my friend aint you heard that Britian no longer cares about its old, ill & disabled so good luck claiming anything in this climate when they are actively taking much needed benefits from soliders & cancer patients :dontknow: worth trying the endless form filling etc just dont bank on it !
Well i could make up the difference out the oodles of benefits i get. Where there's a will there's a way.

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Post: # 250569Post scotsmart
Sat Dec 24, 2011 8:18 pm

indeed see when you find the oute could you tell us pls, im sure many would love to know as th current system is to damn unfair .. :iconbiggrin: :icon_smile:
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