The whole reason for the selfsufficientish website was to offer a place where anyone can ask, HOW DO I...? So who knows why it has taken us so long to have a HOW DO I? section, but here it is. So if you want to know how to do anything selfsufficientish then here is the place to ask.
they are all apreciated. and have helped me alot. sounds very silly but simply having an emotional counter weight is very usefull. and as my new thread hopefully shows i have bounced back.,
Don't be worrying about them Paul. The web is full of opinionated idiots hiding behind their avatars and names trying to be better than everyone else. If the truth be known some of the people knocking you may well be in worse circumstances and not as honest about their true situation as you have been. You're a better person by far. Be proud of all you have done.
Just because you see two eyes shining in the jungle at night, do not think that the worse thing that could happen is that you are about to be attacked by a tiger. It could be two one-eyed tigers.