time out.. and things like that.... c'mon guys... lets keep it friendly

I'm friendly. Everyone says so. I smile at the neighbour's children, distribute free pots of jam and marmalade to anyone who calls and shows an interest, I chat to anyone and everypne and give away eggs to someone I know with 4 kids. I'm one of the most friendly and open hearted people I know. However I do not always agree with people and feel free to say sored wrote:*ahem*
time out.. and things like that.... c'mon guys... lets keep it friendly
I am provocative. I enjoy debate and if I can provoke debate then surely that is good? BTW provocative does not =unfriendly. Unfriendly would be if I never entered into debate at all.I may be confrontational, opinionated,blunt,provocative, but never ever can anyone say I was unfriendly. The problem with internet forums as the only part of a person you get to see is a few words on the screen in front of you. In my case, nobody sees that I am soft hearted, very funny, friendly, helpful and easy going because all they may see is me being blunt and straightforward in a reply. I must admit I have no patience at all with the blame culture which seems to have been imported from across the oceaon whereby if someone has an opposing view or states a view in a straightforward and down to earth manner other start yelling about rudeness, nastiness etc. I think in the whole 8 odd years I have been online and subscribed to various forums on lots of different topics, I have never called anyone rude or mean or nasty simply because they disagreed with me. I have invited the disagree-er to debate why they think that thy are right and I am wrong and have enjoyed the debate and hoped that those reading both sides of the argument can form a balanced view even if they choose not to join in the debate. That, after all, is what debate is supposed to do.Millymollymandy wrote:Sadly, Fenwoman, you don't come across as friendly on this forum. You seem to delight in being provocative, which is a shame, because you have plenty of knowledge and experience to share with the members, if only you could do so in a friendly manner!
I would like to ask Maggie what to do about rats in the hen house, as we've just seen evidence of rats tunneling into it - it has a beaten earth floor. We never had rats before, only mice, but know they are now around as my cat brought a dead one in last week. I'm a bit worried!