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Post: # 158124Post Jandra »

So sorry for both of you. :hugish:

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:hugish: for Fee
:hugish: for Zoe

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so sorry,

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Post: # 158138Post Wombat »

:hugish: From Mrs Wombat and I to both of you!

Hate to say it but I think Milims got it right! better to find out now than later.

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Post: # 158170Post SarahJane »

Big hugs to both of you, I hope that you both are able to look back in time and realise it was the right thing, even though I am sure it doesnt feel that way right now.
Spoil yourselves... you deserve good things. xx :flower:

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Sending love and hugs to both of you ladies.

Thinking of you.



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Post: # 158173Post the.fee.fairy »

oooh its not pretty here today.

Last night, my friend and i decided on a whim to go to Stonehenge...from Essex...at 10pm...i haven't slept for somewhere near 30 hours and there've been tears already.

He's on his way.

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Post: # 158187Post ajs88 »

Lots and lots of hugs :hugish: make sure that you give yourself lots of time, energy and care, and get rid or put away anything that might upset you. Look after yourself lots and lots

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Post: # 158209Post Thomzo »

Well I've been feeling loads better today. Now I know why, all the positive vibes coming my way. Hope the solstice was worth the trip Fee.

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Here's hoping the Solstice worked It's magic for both of you... :hugish:

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Post: # 158398Post Gert »

Fee, you were only five miles away from us.

Next time you decided to do a crazy drive to Stonehenge late at night. Let us know and we will have tea, scones and any other comfort things you might want at the ready.

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Post: # 158427Post JulieSherris »

Fee...... how did it go?

I sort of agree with the others - yes, it's best to find out early-ish on that you might have a 'wanderer'.... but what if it was a one-off?
At the risk of being unpopular, I've always held the belief that if I found out hubby had wandered, I would think long & hard about throwing my life with him away..... if it was a full blown affair, then ok, out the door I go - but a one-off? No.
I could cope with a one-off - oh, I wouldn't let him forget it for a long long time, but I wouldn't let it screw my life up for ever.

That make sense? Probably not!

And besides, I know that in the past, I've had some feelings towards an ex... and 'almost' did the same thing.... as a way of exorcism, maybe? I'm not sure - but I hope everything's ok at your end - whatever the outcome.

Big hugs sweetie - :hugish: - oh, and you looked really quite beautiful in your london knitty pics too - LOVED the naked cyclists :mrgreen: I'm sending my Andy out to the next one :lol: :mrgreen:
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Post: # 158430Post the.fee.fairy »

We broke up.
He can't be in a relationship at the moment, not with me, not with anyone else.

You're all such good people!!

I'm still pretty upset by the whole thing. I really fell for him.

Still...at least i still have time to apply to go to China this year. I got my passport ready yesterday!

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:hugish:
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