For goodness sake!
I'm originally from the south - born in london, moved to dartford when 9, then down to deal (near dover) when 26, & finally up to Blackpool when 37!
Ok, there's always been this 'north-south divide', but I discovered that life was actually better in the north! OK, depending on where you live, obviously - if you're deep within a town then certain things can be difficult.
My 2nd hubby is from Durham - a friend of his went to the council for help & to try & get a council house..... moved into a super place with a huge garden after 2 weeks.... 2 weeks!!!
My eldest daughter was on the council housing list in dover for 5 years as a single mum... a friend of hers was with 2 kiddies in B & B for 3 years before being offered a poky 2 bed flat. (Daughter gave up in the UK & now lives a mile away from us in Ireland!)
Now I'm not saying that this is true for all areas, but it's one example from my experience...
Hubby earned a certain amount in Blackpool, & our outgoings were ok - we were 'comfy' even though I don't work.
We looked at moving back down south... (ashford/maidstone area) So we found that he would be earning about the same amount, but the outgoings! They would have been through the roof! So we stayed where we were for a further 3 years before deciding to move to Ireland.
Now he earns more than in the UK, our outgoings are a lot less & he gets more time off!
So, for all of you who are forced to move - move over here! There's lots of land, lots of space & lots of peace of mind!
Julie