It's a long story MMM.
Most of my life I've been treated by NHS dentists, some good, some bad and the last one was hopeless but I had a fight to get an NHS one at all. Thinking all would be fine I soon learnt that he just didn't have the time to treat me when stuff needed doing (too many clients, too little time). When I'd tell him about pain or sensitivity he'd say 'well that's what you get when you have your own teeth'!!

If I was in his chair for more than 4 minutes I was doing well but didn't have anything done over the years and it's then when the damage was probably done.
I'd had enough of this and left him to go to a private practice and he was horrified and I had so much work done and spent thousands trying to get my teeth sorted. It didn't work, after having several root canal jobs done with crowns there were still problems and oh the pain (sounds like you know only too well MMM).
Anyway, after moving here to Orkney and going to a private dentist (no chance at getting NHS and even those that do have to wait 2 years for treatment!), my upper left 1 tooth (which had been crowned 30 years ago) broke up inside the gum and although he suggested having a plate with the tooth on to fill this gap I just though 'enough'! I asked his opinion about having my remaining top teeth removed and having a denture and he agreed that it would be the best thing to a) stop all the expensive work and b) stop the pain.
Like I said, it is still very expensive but when faced with a choice between a one tooth bridge at £1027 or plate/denture at £334 (plus extractions) - it's a done deal.
All I want is to be pain free, to be able to eat and drink without wanting to scream and to save a fortune on pain killers.
I'm used to having all this dental work done so I'm not scared of that although it won't be nice, just the finality of it and somehow I feel such a failure
My lovely hubby is upset at seeing me go through all this and just wants my pain to stop, been like this for all our married life and that and other medical problems, including depression (well who wouldn't be!), has made me think they hey! I can get rid of one pain in my life so why not.
It will probably just be swapping one lot of problems for another lot of denture-related problems but I'm desperate now...........Wed 13th (!!) is the dreaded day and I'm getting more scared by the hour!
Sorry to have gone on so long

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Life's a bitch and then you diet.